1. Back to oneself
The law of cause and effect applies in everything. What we sow is what we harvest. What we have now is the result of what we did. We are the cause of what we get. It comes from you and it is back to you. Winners realize that everything happens to us is what we have planned and done.
We ourselves are fully responsible for what we have achieved and want to achieve. The mental block that most losers have is that they blame external condition or uncontrollable factors of their failure. For example, she cannot be a famous actress which she is dreaming of, because of her not-good looking physical appearance. Her physical appearance has been a reason of her failure to reach her dream. If she adopts winning mental, she could be famous, relying on her skills which she can learn and practice instead of physical condition which she has got since born.
Winners believe that they themselves are the ones who are responsible for everything they have done and will do. So when they find failure, they will not blame others than themselves and will rise up and start over again to find other ways.
2. Search and sort
Winners search for as many ways to lead them to achievement. During their searching path, they will find some positive and negative factors which they need to sort them out before deciding to exert every effort to come to the goal. It is undeniable that in their journey they will find some obstacles which challenge their resoluteness to obtain their goal.
Compared to losers, they are too lazy to search nor sort. They keep on hoping and asking for others' help. They wish others would lead the way to them and if they fail they believe it is merely because they don't get proper and enough assistance from others.
A winner knows his or her gifts and how to take advantage of them. Winners also have an ability to see the strengths and contributions of others around them. They make sure that everyone who participates feels accomplishment and appreciation for their efforts.
3. Believe in oneself
Winners never doubt themselves. They believe they can reach the sky. As they have strong mindset of success, they never stop engage in any opportunity that may arise and once they come to an opportunity, they will do everything all out to get the best of theirs.
On the other hand, losers doubt themselves. If you do not believe you can, you will absolutely never make a try.
4. Be obsessed
Being obsessed drives you to move to have whatever you want. Winners are desperately obsessed to get what they want. They know it is impossible to reach a big thing individually so they will gratefully leverage the strength of others.
Having great obsession, winners are aggressively engaged in any activity which could bring them to a great opportunity. While a loser is sitting on the sidelines, hoping success will drop by at his door.
5. Stay focus and master the details
Obsession has led winners to focus on every single step and detail they must go through in order to come to the goal. A winner plans, adjusts and readjusts his plan while executing it. Winners know when it is useless to try and apply effort or influence beyond their actual capability. They may test and push those limits, but when faced with a near impossible task, they will conserve effort and move on.
Losers keep on dreaming but find no way to come to it. If you never begin to plan your steps, you will never find any way to come to your dream. Winners have some dreams, prioritize them, strategize and stay focus on details and execute them.
6. Willing to be wrong
Winners are not hesitant to do wrong things. They make plans which have been trough consideration and test their plan in action. You could do wrong things and realize they are not executable after you put things into action but better doing wrong thing than doing nothing. Any single action gives chance of success, while no action at all will make dream remains dream, which never comes to reality.
7. Learn from mistakes
Mistakes are good teachers. Mistakes make us better if we want to learn from them. Mistakes that we have done shows that we cannot make a perfect plan but we are able to readjust the plan to make it more executable and effective. Mistakes challenge our creativity and ingenuity if we want to learn from them. This makes winners be successful.
8. Handle the pain positively
We all have ever come to difficulty and failure, leaving pain. Only those who are able to treat the pain in positive way will be able to keep on moving. Winners handle the pain as an expensive lesson which gives them input to make a better movement. Winners treat the pain as a practice to be more patient and to strengthen their belief to achieve their goal in other ways. Pain makes us stronger and persistent. Failure and pain enrich our experience; they teach us to be more detailed, analytical and self-corrective.
9. Refuse to give up
Many ways to Rome is a winner's principle of life. When they find deadlock, they will keep on looking for other ways to come to their goal. Winners are persistent and determined to realize what they are obsessed of. A winner believes when a door is unlocked, he will break in all doors he could find.
10. Sharing and giving
The quality that winners have is sharing and giving. Winners are generous to share what they have to others; knowledge, skills, money as they believe what they have done to others will be back to them. Winners create winners. Winners give positive influence to others. If you want to be a winner, you have to be around winners. Being around losers will only inhibit you to come to your goal. Winners spread contagious zest but losers spread contagious pessimism.
Let's adopt 10 things winners do differently from loser because we deserve to win and be successful.
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